Can The Biological Father Stop You From Giving Up Your Baby For Adoption?

Relationships & Family Blog

If you are single and discover you are pregnant, one option you have is to give the baby up for adoption. You may run into problems with this option, though, if the biological father is against this. Biological fathers have rights, but they also have responsibilities and obligations. If you strongly believe that giving up your baby for adoption is the best option for you, you may have to fight against the biological father of the child. Here are three things to know about this.

You may need the father's consent

If you know who the father is, the adoption agency might tell you that you will need his consent to give up the child. If the father is against this, you might have a struggle on your hands. You will need to convince him to sign the documents for adoption, but this will only be the case if he pursues paternity testing. Without proof that he is the biological father, you may not need to get his consent for this.

He can dispute this

When a biological father wants rights to a child, he may pursue disputing your decision to give up the baby for adoption. This type of dispute typically must be held at a courtroom in front of a judge. For him to win the dispute, he will have to prove several things, including:

  • That he is the biological father
  • That he plans on supporting the child emotionally, financially, and physically
  • That he is fully capable to support the child

When a dispute like this takes place, you may be able to fight back by proving he will not be able to do these things. You can use evidence of his character to prove your claim. For example, if he does not have a steady job, this can be evidence that he will not be able to support the child. If he has a drug or alcohol problem, this too can be used as evidence to prove he will not able to be a good father to the child.

It will depend on your state's laws

Each state has different laws relating to adoptions and fathers' rights. The best way to find out what you can do about this is to talk to an adoption agency in your state. They will know the laws and be able to help you make the best and right decision for your situation.

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